Don’t let their love change you.

As a little girl did you dream of your prince on a white horse who would kiss all your troubles away? Did you dream of having a husband, two kids and a white picket fence? Did you dream of a love that helped complete you? Well don’t give up on your dreams. Don’t give up on love.

Life is not always fair, the good people don’t always win and sometimes good people get hurt. But what are you gonna do, cry? Not us, Love is patient, love is kind, love is not jealous, it does not boast, it does not become conceited, it does not behave dishonorably, it is not selfish, it does not become angry, it does not keep a record of wrongs, it does not rejoice at unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth, bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 LEB)

When you think about Jesus definition of love it endures, it keeps trusting and hoping and believing. So I titled this, don’t let their love change you because after we get hurt by people we love, we stop trusting in love. Hurt after hurt after hurt causes us to build these walls around our heart. When God sends us the man he picked for us he has to bring an army and march around the heart 7 times to try to get in. He has to battle his inner enemies and yours to find the heart God promised him. Women are not the only ones God made promises to, we are not the only ones who dream of a true love. We keep picking the man of our dreams turned nightmare instead of trusting that what God has for you, is for you and it may not look exactly like you think it should because Gods way is not ours. Our father looks beyond our faults and sees our need.

In 2014 I challenge you to let it go. Let that anger, hurt, disappointment and discontent go, It’s not helping you. Always remember the woman you want to be and live up to your own dreams. Be who God made you to be, your right, everybody won’t treat you right but that is truly their problem, don’t make it yours. Love like you’ve never been hurt before. Wait for the Lord’S help. Be strong and brave, and wait for the Lord’S help. (Psalms 27:14 ERV) he will send your prince as soon as you start acting like a princess!

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